Episodes

Nov. 10, 2023

How We All Struggle with Weight (& what to do)

We are all struggling with weight, each and every one of us. The focus of our struggle may be our own weight, our loved ones, and professionally the struggle may be for our patients, students and colleagues. Today's episode i...
Oct. 20, 2023

Navigating Big Emotions: Parenting in a World of Conflicts

In a world filled with conflicts and crises, how can we navigate the unique challenges of parenting children with big emotions? Join us in this episode as we dive into the crucial topic of recognizing the importance of your c...
Oct. 13, 2023

How to Beat Overwhelm: The Little Steps Approach

Eeek! Today we are celebrating 100 episodes of the podcast and how we got here, amidst overwhelm, insanity and a crazy to-do list. Let's talk about the best way to address overwhelm: little steps. In this episode, I talk abou...
Oct. 6, 2023

An Experiment Gone Wrong: How I Failed a Family

I love experiments. Anyone who has worked with me in the office or the Family in Focus coaching community has heard me talk about little experiments. Well I want to share with you how I f'd it up. I f'd it up - and now I have...
Sept. 22, 2023

How to Deal with Overstimulation and Overwhelm

Are you a parent feeling lost in the chaos of modern life, struggling to understand and manage overstimulation and overwhelm in your children? Are you feeling overwhelmed and overstimulated yourself? Let's dive into the world...
Sept. 14, 2023

Unlocking Your Inner Rebel: How Parents Can Break Free and Rediscover Themselves

Hon, can we talk? I know... the word rebel doesn't feel like it fits. Yet, what is possible if it is the way to lead the life you actually want? Today we're gonna catch up, because I look a 2 month break from y'all, and I hav...
July 13, 2023

The Missing Link between Weight, Stress and Burnout

What's the link? Yes, I do believe there is one, one that is particularly seen through the eyes of a pediatrician who has struggled with stress, burnout and personal and professional struggles to create whole family health. W...
June 22, 2023

How do I help my kids with their feelings?

This is the real-deal of parenting. Our kids have big feelings. And we haven't learned how to deal with our own, let alone help them. Until today. Let's do this, together. Ten minutes to review the prior episodes on emotions ...
June 15, 2023

Emotions: The fuel for our lives

Emotions are the fuel for our lives: they drive everything that we do (and what we don't do). Let's explore more, along with a particular example with a feeling I know very well: frustration. As mentioned in the episode, here...
June 8, 2023

The Skinny on Emotions

Let's talk emotions: Why are they important, where do they come from, how are they made? It's the first in our series on emotions. Getting vulnerable here with the real deal about my struggles with sadness and depression in m...
June 1, 2023

Zzzz your way to better health

Sleep.Comes.First. Let's talk about all the ways that getting better ZZZZ's can help you and your kids with better health AND What's getting in the way of the sleep you need. Learn about how much sleep our kids need The impac...
May 25, 2023

Why efficiency is so hard for moms

Hold on, we were just talking about relationships with food, and now we're talking about efficiency? Yup. This is real-deal life as a parent. It's all the things. The mental burden. The many-tabs open at once. In today's epis...
May 19, 2023

Understanding our relationship with food

"I just want my kid to have a healthy relationship with food." What does that even mean? It's a new approach, better than the whole let's-just-focus-on-changing-body-size, and yet I sure didn't learn about cultivating healthy...
May 5, 2023

What happened with our brains during the pandemic

Brains, Pandemics, Weight, and Trauma... Ooph - yeah, it sounds like a hard topic, but we're going to explore today a few concepts that have been spinning through my head and readings, of course with laughter, stories, analog...
April 27, 2023

Building a Healthy Family with Corinne Crabtree

Seriously, y'all, if you're gonna have your first-ever podcast guest, who are you gonna have? P!nk? Yup, thought about it. My sister? She's coming... And Corinne Freaking Crabtree! The Queen Bee of the No BS Weight-loss Progr...
April 13, 2023

Default Mode

"This is just the way I am." That is THE biggest obstacle to change: thinking that you are your habits, your actions, your thoughts and feelings. Thinking that they are set in stone. Nope, they are just practiced a lot. And w...
April 6, 2023

The Myth of the Happy Child

"I'm only as happy as my unhappiest child." What on Earth?! With all the kid-angst and unhappiness that kids experience, it sounds crazy to think that we would tie our emotions to theirs. But do you see that happening? Do you...
March 31, 2023

Growth, Evidence and Celebration

Today, we celebrate. I'm celebrating the birth, evolution and growth of Family in Focus. I've been asked time and again, "What is the evidence that Family in Focus is effective?" I'm creating the evidence. It's been a labor o...
March 24, 2023

What do you need, Momma?

Have you heard the questions about identifying your kids' needs? It's really the heart to understanding their behavior, but let's not jump too far ahead: When's the last time you asked what YOU need? This is critical for heal...
March 17, 2023

When Kids Disagree With Your Parenting

"You're the worst parent in the world." "You've f'd me up." Ah, kids. Gotta love them. They sure know how to make us feel amazing. That's what we're talking about today: the explicit is for feeling "shitty" a few times, and "...
March 10, 2023

How to deal with stress eating (Part 3: Helping Kids with Stress)

We've been working through a series on stress eating, and we need to understand the stress first. We've started with ourselves: understanding our stress, what we do with stress. Now we can start talking about helping our chil...
March 3, 2023

How to deal with stress eating (Part 2: 8 ways to address the stress)

Continuing on from Episode #80, "How to deal with stress eating," we dive into 8 ways... yes 8, to address the stress. Please notice if there's stress about 8... you can try any one and see how it works for you. That's the ti...
Feb. 24, 2023

How to deal with stress eating (Part 1)

Do you find yourself stressed out, collapsing on the couch with a bag of tortilla chips in exhaustion, and scrolling on social media? You are not alone: stress eating is so common for us and our kids. In order to address it w...
Feb. 16, 2023

My missteps with the scale

What happens when we focus on the scale? Finding it hard to NOT do it? In this episode, I share the story of how I smacked face-first into the reality that it is really hard to not focus on what the scale says. But also, what...