Episodes

May 6, 2022

How to ask the right questions about your child's new diagnosis

When we hear a new diagnosis, whether it is weight-related, mental health, behavioral, or physical, a lot of questions come up for us as parents. How do you learn to ask questions that actually help you and your child, now? F...
April 28, 2022

Understanding Emotional Eating to Help Our Kids

Is it emotional eating? Is that bad? What do I do? So many questions about emotional eating. Let's dig into it today. Full show notes available here . --------------------- I ask a favor of you: if you liked this episode, ple...
April 21, 2022

Why am I worried about weight if my kids aren't overweight?

Parents with children who are overweight and diagnosed with obesity are not the only ones worried about weight. In fact, more often than not, I hear from parents whose children aren't overweight... and yet, the parents are wo...
April 15, 2022

What I learned at the "Disney World... for Coaches"

Whew! I'm exhausted: the kind of tired that happens after you've had an ah-mazing time. I went to the Life Coach School's Mastermind this past week: and yes, it was like Disney World for me. Excitement, giddiness, so much to ...
April 8, 2022

Why focusing on obesity is the wrong approach & how to make real change

The news headlines tell us there is a pandemic of obesity. We hear how our health is at risk, our children's lives are at risk. It's all wrong. It's the wrong approach. Listen now to hear about the right approach to weight fo...
April 1, 2022

How many calories should my child be eating?

We're diving into common questions about weight, body, feeding our kids and ourselves, and health at home. Today, "How many calories should my child be eating?" Spoiler: it's not what you think! Listen more to understand the ...
March 25, 2022

Why are our waistlines increasing?

So many similar questions: Why are our waistlines increasing? Why am I overweight? Why are my kids overweight? The questions ask for a reason, something to address and fix. Listen now to hear why we have overweight - and what...
March 18, 2022

Ep 41: How is exercise NOT good for your family's health?

TL;DR: Exercise is not always helpful, in fact, it can be harmful to your health, and not in some crazy I-can't-believe-I-ran-that-far or lifted-that-car-over-my-head kind of way. Exercising because you have to, to avoid sham...
March 10, 2022

Is that food a YES!, a no-thank-you, or a "not yet"?

Since we've already settled that there are really very few bad foods on Podcast Episode #37 and the blog, what's next? Everything else is either a YES-please!!!, a No-thank-you or a not-yet food. Take a listen to understand h...
March 3, 2022

Ep 39: The one right way to feed your family

Drum roll please... we've all been waiting and looking for the one right way to feed your family. We've got it here, today. Take a listen and then let me know how what you're eating today is right for your family. And when yo...
Feb. 24, 2022

5 ways diet culture has snuck into our homes & how to change it for good

Whether we like it or not, diet culture is all around us, and that means it has snuck into our homes. It is in the background while we are at dinner and while we are getting dressed. Today's episode examines 5 ways that diet ...
Feb. 17, 2022

Ep. 37: How to identify & actually avoid the three bad foods for your kids

How do you know if foods are good or bad? Does it have something to do with their nutritional content? Their impact on your blood sugar? If you like them or not? This week's episode dives into the (ONLY!) three bad foods you ...
Feb. 10, 2022

Ep. 36: How is love the present for my family?

In the spirit of Valentine's Day, we're chatting about love. But not that commercial buy-this, prove-that-you-love-them approach. Instead: how can you use love at home to help you and your family? Every. Darn. Day. And when y...
Feb. 3, 2022

Ep 35: How to Parent without the Heavy Burden of Drama

We talk about parenting without the drama.... what does that really mean? What is the drama? Check out today's episode to find out about the drama that you want, and the drama you can choose to drop like a big old heavy suitc...
Jan. 27, 2022

Ep 34: How Ice Cream is Like Your Taboo Ex-Boyfriend

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD We're time-traveling today: going back to my teen years to see how my dangerous, taboo ex-boyfriend is similar to... ice cream. And it has nothing to do with temperature. Take...
Jan. 21, 2022

Ep 33: Drama-busting: What the Health?

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD, Episode #33. I help you parent without all the food and body drama. So let's get drama-busting. One of the biggest dramas that I had was "knowing" what was healthy and then s...
Jan. 13, 2022

Episode 32: The need to get it right

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD, Episode #32. The need to get things right was trained into me. I was rewarded for high scores in school. In medical school, I learned the "right way" to be healthy. Ha. All o...
Jan. 6, 2022

Episode #31: Changing my mind

Making a decision doesn't mean that you have to stick with it forever. Or that you're hypocritical to change your mind. In Episode #31 of Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD we talk about how I changed my mind, how it is g...
Dec. 30, 2021

Episode 30: Building Trust

Trust is built by having a firm belief in someone or something. In episode 30 (!) of Family in Focus: find out how to build that belief in your body, its messages (like hunger), and then model that self-trust with your childr...
Dec. 24, 2021

Eating While Feeling is Not a Crime

We continue on our series on Hunger, Eating & Family -- with recognition of emotional eating. Is it a problem? Is it THE problem? Only if we let it be. Let's chat about why emotional eating is not a problem. Come over to my b...
Dec. 16, 2021

Episode 28: 4 Reasons Kids (and Adults!) Seek and Eat Food Without Being Hungry

Episode 28! Last time we talked about Hunger & Kids... but you may have noticed, there's a lot of food-searching going on. Is it possible the kids aren't actually hungry all the time? Why else could they be asking for food, a...
Dec. 9, 2021

Episode 27: Hunger & Kids

"My kids are always hungry!" Sound familiar to you? So many parents note it with concern, and question, "What does this mean?" This is the first episode in a series on hunger. We are starting with the why, the biology, and th...
Dec. 2, 2021

Episode 26: Three Things That We Were Never Taught

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD. As a physician and parent, I've learned a lot about kids, nutrition, and growth. But these are three things that I wasn't taught in school about weight - and are now oh so im...
Nov. 23, 2021

Episode 25: Teaching Gratitude for the Pain

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD, Episode #25! It's Thanksgiving week! It's that time of year where we renew our gratitude practices - and yet, how do we reconcile having gratitude amidst so much pain? Today'...