Family in Focus®
Family in Focus®
Are you feeling stuck around your child’s eating, weight, or health? Are food struggles or mixed messages about “doing it right” creating stress in your home? Family in Focus is a podcast for parents navigating family health, especially when concerns about food, body, and emotional well-being start to strain relationships at home. Hosted by Dr. Wendy Schofer, the pediatrician who helps parents lead meaningful change without harm, this podcast approaches family health in a very different way, by prioritizing connection, trust, and emotional health over control or pressure. Family in Focus centers parent-led shifts that actually last. Conversations explore how change can happen without shame, how emotions shape health behaviors, and why protecting the parent-child relationship is essential to supporting children’s well-being. This is a space for parents who want to support their child’s health without sacrificing connection along the way.
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Family in Focus®

Family in Focus® helps parents lead change without harm.

Hosted by pediatrician Dr. Wendy Schofer, this podcast supports families navigating food, body image, childhood weight concerns, and emotional well being without pressure, shame, or control.

Through practical insight and compassionate guidance, Dr. Wendy teaches parents how to create lasting shifts by prioritizing connection and trust.

Your child’s health should never come at the cost of your relationship.

Family in Focus® | A New Season Begins | Official Trailer
Family in Focus®
Family in Focus® | A New Season Begins | Official Trailer

Recent Episodes

Aug. 26, 2026

5 Things Parents Need to Know About Intuitive Eating for Kids

If you’ve been told to “let your child listen to their body,” you may be wondering what that actually looks like when they refuse dinner but happily ask for snacks five minutes later. In this episode of Family in Focus, I’m breaking down five things parents need to know about intuitive eating and kids, including why an approach designed for adults may not translate directly to a child who is still learning to recognize hunger, fullness, and satisfaction. We’ll talk about the difference between
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Aug. 19, 2026

Before You Talk to Your Child About Their Weight, Ask Yourself This

What happens when comments about a child’s body stay with them long after childhood? And how can you protect your child from carrying the same shame, fear, and judgment many of us grew up with? In this special episode of Family in Focus, I’m joined by Lisa Fipps, award-winning author of the middle-grade novel Starfish. Lisa shares how her experiences with weight-based bullying inspired the book and why its message continues to resonate with children and adults. We talk about weight stigma, bod
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Aug. 12, 2026

Should We Be Talking About Other People’s Bodies?

Should We Be Talking About Other People’s Bodies? Should we talk about other people’s bodies? What do you say when your child notices a celebrity’s body has changed? And is teaching kids to never talk about bodies always the right approach? In this episode of Family in Focus, I explore the complicated conversations happening around bodies, weight, and health. Using public conversations about Lizzo and Ariana Grande as examples, we look at the difference between making assumptions about someone
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Aug. 5, 2026

How to Set Healthy Boundaries That Help Your Child Thrive

How to Set Healthy Boundaries That Help Your Child Thrive How do you set healthy boundaries without hurting your relationship with your child? Why do children push back against limits? Do kids actually need boundaries to become more independent? If you've ever wondered these things, this episode is for you. In this episode of Family in Focus, I explain why healthy boundaries aren't about control. They're about creating the structure and emotional safety children need to become confident, indep
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July 29, 2026

The Best Thing to Say When Your Child Criticizes Their Body

If your child has ever said, "I hate my body," "I wish I looked different," or criticized their appearance, you may have wondered what you're supposed to say in that moment. In this episode of Family in Focus, I share why the most helpful response isn't reassurance, advice, or trying to change your child's mind. Instead, we explore how curiosity, presence, and connection create the emotional safety children need to develop a healthier relationship with their body over time. In this episode: •
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July 22, 2026

The Kindness Your Child Needs Starts With You

If you've ever wondered whether being kinder to yourself could actually make you a better parent, this conversation is for you. In this special guest episode of Family in Focus, I'm joined by my dear friend Dr. Faryal D. Michaud, DO, palliative care physician, coach, and founder of Physicians Living Intentionally. Together, we explore why the relationship you have with yourself shapes the relationship you build with your child, and how self-compassion, curiosity, and intentional parenting creat

About the Host

Dr. Wendy Schofer, MD Profile Photo
Dr. Wendy Schofer, MD

I’m a board-certified pediatrician, lifestyle physician, emotional health educator—and a recovering fixer.

For years, I practiced traditional medicine in military and civilian settings. I followed the guidelines. I tracked the growth charts. I offered the same advice parents have heard for decades: eat better, move more, and everything will fall into place.

Except it didn’t.

I started to notice a pattern: families were stressed, overwhelmed, and scared—especially when it came to their children’s weight. Kids were struggling with emotional eating, anxiety, and body image. And the more we focused on control (portions, numbers, outcomes), the more disconnected everyone became—from their bodies, from each other, and from themselves.

So I stopped following the script.

Through my own continued education, I pursued trauma-informed care, neuroscience & positive psychology, emotional health, design thinking, feminist and weight-inclusive care—I began asking different questions:

What if “health” isn’t about weight at all?

What if the root of so many family health concerns is emotional disconnection?

What if the answer isn’t control, but connection?

That’s where Family in Focus® was born.

Family in Focus is the space I created for parents who want a new way forward—where emotional health is at the center of family health. Where kids are not pathologized or pressured, and parents don’t have to feel like they’re failing if their child grows outside the “normal” curve.

We talk about emotional eating—but we start with the emotions.
We build healthy habits—but we ditch the shame.
We raise healthy families—but we don’t follow the food rules that broke us.

This is weight-inclusive, trauma-informed, eating disorder–preventive family health. All Feelings are Welcome, and All Bodies are Welcome.

And yes, I bring humor with me. Improv and stand-up comedy have taught me how to meet people where they are—with curiosity, creativity, and the occasional mic drop. Because nothing changes if we’re too scared to talk about it—and I believe healing can be both brave and lighthearted.

If you're a parent, a provider, or a person who knows the system isn't working, let's talk. I’m building a community of families, professionals, and institutions ready to center emotional health and connection—because that’s what creates real, sustainable well-being.

Let’s raise healthy families. From the inside out.