Episodes

Feb. 9, 2023

It's time to stop focusing on weight

We think we need to focus on weight: after all, isn't that how we identify a problem and fix it? In today's episode, I start the conversation about how there's more to it. Our focus on weight has NOT been helping our families...
Jan. 27, 2023

What is your weight reality?

"And the reality of my weight is..." Let's talk about the facts of weight. How is the number on the scale impacting your reality? How do you determine what is possible for you and your family, given the reality? Much to discu...
Jan. 19, 2023

The challenge of raising a healthy family

Challenges! We've sure got them. What are the challenges you're facing right now? Work, stress, relationships, health, weight... What makes them challenging? Challenges are situations we don't know the outcome. It's stressful...
Jan. 12, 2023

Creating a plan for your family's health

Do you have a plan for your family's health? How's it working? Want to throw it out? Or is it something that you hate the rules and structure of a plan? In today's episode we talk about how to create a plan for your own famil...
Dec. 15, 2022

Understanding Why We Eat (or do anything for that matter)

Previously we discussed doing a little sleuthing - observing behaviors. What is it that your kids are doing? What are you finding out about the patterns of their behavior? This week we are exploring what comes before the beha...
Dec. 9, 2022

When you don't have the Mom-Energy to do it: The Bare Minimum

How often are you just too pooped to do anything? And yet, work, kids, email, dinner, life just keep making demands of you. It is further exhausting! Today we talk about my concept and PRACTICE of The Bare Minimum. We define ...
Dec. 1, 2022

Why Weight Goals Don't Work for Kids

It's Part 1 of our mini-series! Why don't weight goals work for kids? Learn 3 reasons, and the first 2 things to do to help in a meaningful, lifelong way. Full show notes available here . Join Family in Focus coaching now. Cu...
Nov. 18, 2022

What if your child is overweight?

No hypotheticals or fear of the future: let's talk about what happens if your child is actually overweight, has a diagnosis of obesity or diabetes. Then what happens? Today we dive into what we can do as parents to support, n...
Nov. 10, 2022

How to deal with Sugar (and Kids)

SUGAR! It's everywhere. How do you deal with the sugar in the food, and the fascination with sugar? Is it helpful to declare war on sugar? Let's talk about different approaches to take to help get past the black and white thi...
Nov. 3, 2022

Getting the Expert's Input: What to Feed Our Kids

You've got questions, experts have answers. Bring your questions to Episode 69 of FIFWS and find out how to answer them: What do I feed my kids: how much, how do I help them find a healthy weight, how much to move... And so m...
Oct. 27, 2022

Building trust in bodies and decisions

How do you build trust in your body? In your child and their decisions? How does your child build trust? Is it earned? Take a listen to learn the questions to ask now to build trust going forward. Full show notes available he...
Oct. 20, 2022

Let's Prepare for Halloween

It's a spooky time of year, when we finalize costumes and freak out about what to do with all the Halloween candy. Sames, my friend. Let's talk about preparing now & learn three things to help make Halloween what you want it ...
Oct. 14, 2022

What does a healthy weight need to look like?

Let's do an exercise today. Bring a pen and paper, and be ready to write. We are going to explore what it needs to look like to have a healthy weight for you, for your family. It's an introduction to something that I call the...
Oct. 6, 2022

How to Struggle... Less

Struggling with your weight? Struggling with your child's weight? Let's talk about how to struggle less. Learn why we struggle, as well as the three ways to decrease struggle. With lots of examples of how I still struggle and...
Sept. 29, 2022

What to do when you aren't seeing progress

Got a weight loss goal? Helping your child eat better to maintain their weight? And you're not seeing progress? Listen to Episode #64 where we talk about what to do. Learn about: defining progress, what metrics are you using,...
Sept. 22, 2022

"But can you just help my kid lose weight?"

I hear you, "Sure, healthy relationships with food are good, but... can you just help my kid lose weight?" Let's talk about it! Why should or shouldn't weight loss be the goal for your child? Full show notes available here . ...
Sept. 14, 2022

Why is it so freaking hard?!?

OMG, I keep asking myself this very question, and I'm catching myself. Why is it so hard... with weight, with raising healthy kids, in business, in relationships?!? 💩 Shitty question alert 💩 Let's talk about WHY it's hard, an...
Sept. 1, 2022

Why worrying about weight doesn't work, and what to do instead

Yup, we're all worrying about weight. The wedding that's coming up, the pants we want to fit back into, and now our kids -- what about the kids? Even worse, we're told to worry about weight from media and doctors offices and ...
Aug. 25, 2022

Why Weight Management Isn't What Our Kids Need

What is "weight management" anyway? Learn how it is code for diets, 4 reasons why diets are bad for kids, and what we can do as parents instead. Full show notes available here . Weight Loss 101 for Your Whole Family: get star...
Aug. 18, 2022

What does wellness look like for kids?

We talk about wellness, but what does it really mean, and what can our kids do to work on their wellness? Listen in for a new way to look at wellness that includes everyone in the family, from infants through adults. And lear...
Aug. 11, 2022

Becoming the Rock

Roadtrip season is winding down and man, have I seen a lot of ROCKS! Devil's Tower, the Grand Tetons, Yellowstone, Badlands, Mount Rushmore... It reminds me of how my most important role as a parent is to be... you've got it,...
Aug. 4, 2022

Taking Some Time Off to Find What Works

How often do you feel like you have to be on your A-game all the time? (Oh, not just me?!) Having to work, adult, keep things rolling... gets freaking exhausting. I took the executive decision to take July off with my family:...
July 7, 2022

How to Save Your Family's Summer (from the Summer Doldrums)

The summer offers a magical time to kick back, change the routine, and unfortunately it also means that the easing of structure and routine can cause challenges. How are you saving your summer for the whole family, recreating...
July 1, 2022

How to Learn Your Child's Motivation Language

Doesn't it seem like we speak a different language than our kids, especially when it comes to getting them to do something like move, try something new, or change their eating habits? How do we motivate our kids? How do we co...