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Oct. 24, 2025

Redefining healthy to prevent disordered eating: how we break cycles

Redefining healthy to prevent disordered eating: how we break cycles

Defining healthy to prevent disordered eating. We are changing the whole approach we grew up with. For us. For our kids. I'm a pediatrician specializing in eating disorder prevention and helping parents create lifelong relationships with food, body, self and family that the whole family can share at every age,…

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Oct. 23, 2025

Don't make this mistake about eating disorder prevention for kids

Don't make this mistake about eating disorder prevention for kids

www.WendySchoferMD.com #familyinfocus #eatingdisorderprevention #themoreyouknow 💫 #pediatrician #helpwithoutharm While Wendy Schofer, MD, discusses health and wellness, this is not medical advice and she is not your physician. The Family in Focus® programs and products of Coach Wendy, MD LLC are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease, they…

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Oct. 23, 2025

Pediatrician speaks: My secret to raise healthy families & prevent eating disorders

Pediatrician speaks: My secret to raise healthy families & prevent eating disorders

My secret is out. Hear why it is such a guiding light for me. Join the open conversation with parents creating change without harm this weekend. Register: www.wendyschofermd.com/freeclass While Wendy Schofer, MD, discusses health and wellness, this is not medical advice and she is not your physician. The Family in…

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Oct. 22, 2025

When you find diet culture words coming out of your mouth: this is why

When you find diet culture words coming out of your mouth: this is why

Don't miss our upcoming open conversation about eating disorder prevention and creating lifelong relationships with food, body, self and family that the whole family can share at every age, every size. Link to register: www.wendyschofermd.com/freeclass #familyinfocus #eatingdisorderprevention #freeclass #carchat #designthinking While Wendy Schofer, MD, discusses health and wellness, this is…

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Oct. 21, 2025

Bring your questions about family weight, eating habits to n eating disorder prevention pediatrician

Bring your questions about family weight, eating habits to n eating disorder prevention pediatrician

Bring your questions. Bring yourself. Adults-only conversations about creating healthy relationships with food, body and family. With a pediatrician specializing in eating disorder prevention. Register today: www.wendyschofermd.com/freeclass While Wendy Schofer, MD, discusses health and wellness, this is not medical advice and she is not your physician. The Family in Focus®…

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Oct. 21, 2025

You're invited! Conversation with Eating Disorder Prevention Pediatrician

You're invited! Conversation with Eating Disorder Prevention Pediatrician

Join the conversation. www.WendySchoferMD.com/freeclass Eating disorder prevention Healthy lifelong relationships with food, body and family Family in Focus® Help without harm with a pediatrician #familyinfocus #fyp #eatingdisorderprevention #weight #chittychat

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Oct. 21, 2025

Your child's weight is not a math problem to solve.

Your child's weight is not a math problem to solve.

Eating disorder prevention does not start with food, weight, or even exercise. It starts with us, adult adults. Check those biases and stigmas, all the messages that you grew up with in this fat phobic, body – hating culture. What we thought is health centered is actually riddled with stigma,…

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Oct. 20, 2025

Why Focusing On Weight Can Hurt Kids More Than Help

Why Focusing On Weight Can Hurt Kids More Than Help

Worried about your children's weight and nutrition? Dr. Wendy Schofer, MD, discusses the how focusing on weight can backfire when trying to help children develop healthy relationships with their bodies. Learn how to create healthy eating habits. Get some helpful parenting tips for feeding kids and building a positive family…

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Oct. 20, 2025

Is your child's BMI greater than 99%? How to help without harm.

Is your child's BMI greater than 99%? How to help without harm.

Is your child's BMI over the 99th percentile? How do you help? Take a listen. www.WendySchoferMD.com While Wendy Schofer, MD, discusses health and wellness, this is not medical advice and she is not your physician. The Family in Focus® programs and products of Coach Wendy, MD LLC are not intended…

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Oct. 20, 2025

Your child's weight is not a diagnosis, a sentence or defining their health

Your child's weight is not a diagnosis, a sentence or defining their health

"You should be taller." Been waiting for that dial to be turned my whole life. Still waiting. Yet somehow we think that weight can just be changed - restriction; meds, diets, wishful willful thinking?! We can't dial in our kids' height or heart rate - why do we think it's…

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Oct. 19, 2025

IMPROVE Focus for Kids Today

IMPROVE Focus for Kids Today

And they totally work for us too! Sleep Nutrition Boredom Kids Focus Attention Eating habits Weight if you're focusing on them all individually, you're setting yourself up to struggle. raising healthy families is like building a skyscraper. It is messy, and you need a solid foundation. Go back to the…

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Oct. 18, 2025

The real reason you struggle with eating habits, exercise and motivation

The real reason you struggle with eating habits, exercise and motivation

Friend, sleep comes first. Say it with me, "Sleep. comes. first." Again! Louder. we cannot work harder on changing our nutrition and our movement while overlooking the fact that we are stressed, cortisol is sky high, and we do not have the rest that we need to function. Learn more:…

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Oct. 17, 2025

GLP-1 Drugs, Quick Fix Culture, and What Our Kids Are Learning | Pediatrician Reacts

GLP-1 Drugs, Quick Fix Culture, and What Our Kids Are Learning | Pediatrician Reacts

Are we teaching our kids that health comes in a shot? Dr. Wendy Schofer, MD — a pediatrician specializing in eating-disorder prevention and healthy relationships with food, body, and family — shines a light on the alarming rise of cosmetic GLP-1 use and why our “quick-fix culture” is setting the…

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Oct. 17, 2025

Kids Are Melting Down Over Boredom? Do This

Kids Are Melting Down Over Boredom? Do This

BOREDOM. Kids know it and complain about it nonstop. Boredom is the end of the world for children, at least according to them. Here's the Harvard Business Review article by Dr. Arthur C. Brooks discussed in the video: https://hbr.org/2025/08/you-need-to-be-bored-heres-why Hear why this is actually not the case. How boredom is…

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Oct. 16, 2025

Why Restrictions Make Kids Hide More. A Better Way to Parent

Why Restrictions Make Kids Hide More. A Better Way to Parent

When kids hide or sneak around, most parents react with more control—and it backfires. In this short video, Dr. Wendy Schofer, pediatrician and emotional health expert, explains why secrecy isn’t the enemy and how being your child’s ally builds trust, honesty, and healthy relationships with food, body, and family. Transcript:…

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Oct. 16, 2025

No joke: Family in Focus® is not to be confused. You are welcome here

No joke: Family in Focus® is not to be confused. You are welcome here

We're taking Family in Focus® back!!!! Inclusive of weight, of life experience, of origin, of religion, of perspectives, of identity. Simply check the hatred (of bodies, of differences and of ideologies) at the door. Welcoming open discussion. No debate. Simply curiosity. Imagine that. #familyinfocus #inclusiveeducation #socialemotionalskills #rebel #pediatrician

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Oct. 16, 2025

Worried about your child's weight? Help without harm is right here : first three steps for parents

Worried about your child's weight? Help without harm is right here : first three steps for parents

How do you help your child without harm when doctors, family members, neighbors and educators are telling you that your child has to lose weight? Here are the first three steps, which are critical for parents to do before you make any changes in your home. Needed conversations about growth…

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Oct. 14, 2025

What does it mean to have a healthy relationship with food? Hope from a pediatrician

What does it mean to have a healthy relationship with food? Hope from a pediatrician

Raising our kids to have healthy relationships is not about control controlling, restriction, or letting them do whatever they damn well please.  It's not about avoiding larger bodies, or even about avoiding eating disorders. It's about letting them develop their own relationships through trial, error, messing up, practice, and…

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Oct. 10, 2025

Eating disorders aren't about food or weight. Focus on relationships. #familyinfocus

Eating disorders aren't about food or weight. Focus on relationships. #familyinfocus

Want to prevent eating disorders? Don’t start with food. Start with relationships. It’s World Mental Health Day — and this matters. We’ve been told eating disorders are about food or weight. But really, they’re about disconnection — from ourselves, from our bodies, and from each other. So prevention isn’t about…

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Oct. 9, 2025

Parenting through disordered eating: how a mom got the confidence she needed to help

Parenting through disordered eating: how a mom got the confidence she needed to help

Monica wanted to share her experience with Family in Focus and how it impacted her family. Learn about her military family, husband in the Marines, complete with overexercise and restricted eating, and how her son followed in her husband's footsteps. Learn how Monica spotted patterns of concern in her son's…

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Oct. 9, 2025

What parents can do about disordered eating habits in children

What parents can do about disordered eating habits in children

Control and management does not foster healthy relationships. HARD FREAKING STOP. This is what we are missing in our struggles with weight, eating habits, and yes, disordered eating of all varieties. Have you noticed the way that disordered eating increases the more that there is focus on controlling eating? And,…

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Oct. 9, 2025

Help without harm for families struggling with weight and eating habits #pediatrician #familyinfocus

Help without harm for families struggling with weight and eating habits #pediatrician #familyinfocus

You want your kids to develop a healthy relationship with their food, and their body, but our current approach is actually causing the food fights and friction and meltdowns that we have every single day. Controlling what our kids eat, even though it's from the very best of intentions, is…

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Oct. 6, 2025

How parents can help when worried about their child's weight: help without harm from a pediatrician

How parents can help when worried about their child's weight: help without harm from a pediatrician

How to help your child who struggles with weight, eating habits and mental health- without shame or harm. I've learned so much about what DOESN'T work for our families' health in my 20+ years as a pediatrician in the military: shame, restriction, searching for quick fixes and magic bullets (they…

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Oct. 6, 2025

How a busy pediatrician decreases stress for herself and families in clinic. #familyinfocus #healthy

How a busy pediatrician decreases stress for herself and families in clinic. #familyinfocus #healthy

A love note to parents, from a pediatrician. Stress relief Comes with creating little spaces of quiet, of connection, of healing. You have nothing to prove by being busy all the damn time. They can wait. Your nervous system, your health and your family's health all need you to slooooooow…

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