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Feb. 16, 2026

Why today is important for shifting your child's eating habits without shame, restriction and diets

Why today is important for shifting your child's eating habits without shame, restriction and diets

Worry about your child's weight stops here: Follow and invite a friend who needs real help shifting eating habits WITHOUT the harm of diets, restriction and omg all the food fights over control. National Eating disorder Awareness Week starts Feb 23. You don't want to miss a thing: follow and…

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Feb. 15, 2026

The critical information parents need to shift kids' eating habits without restriction & control

The critical information parents need to shift kids' eating habits without restriction & control

#eatingdisorderprevention #Familyinfocus #pediatrician #emotionsmatter #askdrwendy follow now so you don't miss a thing the week of Feb 23: National eating disorder awareness week learn more about Dr. Wendy and Family in Focus at www.WendySchoferMD.com

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Feb. 14, 2026

Why “Perfect” Parenting Plans Fail at Home

Why “Perfect” Parenting Plans Fail at Home

It works on paper. Portion sizes. Movement goals. The “perfect” plan. But real life does not happen on paper. In Episode 2 of Family in Focus, I share why so many well-meaning strategies fall apart at home and what actually helps families move forward. If you are tired of trying…

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Feb. 14, 2026

What's really going on when kids are rummaging for snacks...again!!

What's really going on when kids are rummaging for snacks...again!!

The missing link in eating habits? Emotions! If this whole topic is new to you, you're not alone and it's not too late to find what works for you and your family. Learn more about Dr. Wendy and the Family in Focus community at www.WendySchoferMD.com #emotionsmatter #eatingdisorderprevention #Familyinfocus #pediatrician #helpwithoutharm

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Feb. 14, 2026

Why “Perfect” Parenting Plans Fail at Home

Why “Perfect” Parenting Plans Fail at Home

It works on paper. Portion sizes. Movement goals. The “perfect” plan. But real life does not happen on paper. In Episode 2 of Family in Focus, I share why so many well-meaning strategies fall apart at home and what actually helps families move forward. If you are tired of trying…

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Feb. 14, 2026

What parents need to change their children's eating habits without food fights and shame

What parents need to change their children's eating habits without food fights and shame

Emotions are the missing link in eating habits If this whole topic is new to you, you're not alone and it's not too late to find what works for you and your family. Learn more about Dr. Wendy and the Family in Focus community at www.WendySchoferMD.com #emotionsmatter #eatingdisorderprevention #Familyinfocus #pediatrician…

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Feb. 14, 2026

It’s Not You. It’s The Approach. #eatingdisorderprevention #parenting #eatinghabits

It’s Not You. It’s The Approach. #eatingdisorderprevention #parenting #eatinghabits

Parenting struggles. Child weight concerns. Picky eating. Feeling like you’re failing your child’s health? I want to say this clearly. You are not failing. If the plans, the portion rules, the tighter control have not worked, it is not because you are not trying hard enough. It may be the…

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Feb. 13, 2026

The surprising thing to say when someone calls themselves "fat and nasty": it's not what you think

The surprising thing to say when someone calls themselves "fat and nasty": it's not what you think

Shame does not lead someone to suddenly pick up the crispy, juicy apple or the crunchy carrot. Want more help changing the dialogue AND eating habits, without harm? Join the community of parents breaking the cycle of shame and control in the name of "health." www.WendySchoferMD.com #emotionsmatter #eatrealfood #eatingdisorderprevention #Familyinfocus…

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Feb. 13, 2026

The surprising thing to say when someone calls themselves "fat & nasty" matters more than you think

The surprising thing to say when someone calls themselves "fat & nasty" matters more than you think

Shame does not lead someone to suddenly pick up the crispy, juicy apple or the crunchy carrot. Want more help changing the dialogue AND eating habits, without harm? Join the community of parents breaking the cycle of shame and control in the name of "health." www.WendySchoferMD.com #emotionsmatter #eatrealfood #eatingdisorderprevention #Familyinfocus…

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Feb. 12, 2026

How to Support Your Child’s Health Without Harm #healthyparenting #eatingdisorderprevention #stitch

How to Support Your Child’s Health Without Harm #healthyparenting #eatingdisorderprevention #stitch

Child weight concerns. Picky eating. Growth chart stress. Are you trying to help your child be healthy without causing harm? A new season of Family in Focus has started. In this first episode, I break down why focusing on weight, the scale, and tighter control is not giving families the…

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Feb. 12, 2026

How Americans see calls for eating habit change so very differently

How Americans see calls for eating habit change so very differently

Don't say, "you're reading into it." Don't say, "that's not what they intended." Get curious. What experiences could others have that they would receive this message very, very differently? How could it be using an approach that has been shown to drive people AWAY from medical offices as well as…

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Feb. 12, 2026

What to say to your kid when you're worried about their weight and eating habits: help without harm

What to say to your kid when you're worried about their weight and eating habits: help without harm

It's actually not what you say. Say LESS. Listen. Be there. It tells them one thing loud & clear: You never have to shrink or change to be accepted. If you're like, "Yes, and I'm still worried about their health and habits," I've got resources for you. Sign up for…

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Feb. 11, 2026

This impacts your health and your ability to eat real food when you're told "processed food kills"

This impacts your health and your ability to eat real food when you're told "processed food kills"

The health principle that "Eat Real Food" misses. Shame doesn't make anyone healthier. And it doesn't address the real barriers to real Americans eating real food. Take note of finances, racism, education, disconnection and stigma - like the weight stigma that is being used not like a scalpel but like…

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Feb. 11, 2026

Who says you have to lose weight? #FamilyInFocus#ParentingSupport#FeedingFamilies#ChildHealth

Who says you have to lose weight? #FamilyInFocus#ParentingSupport#FeedingFamilies#ChildHealth

If you want to support your child’s health without pressure or shame, you are in the right place. Season 2 of Family in Focus® begins today. Episode 1 gives you space to exhale. Episode 2 offers a small, meaningful next step. Both are live now. I’m really glad you’re here.…

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Feb. 11, 2026

Fear-based "Processed Food Kills" messages overlook this critical part of making Americans healthy

Fear-based "Processed Food Kills" messages overlook this critical part of making Americans healthy

It's time to learn what MAHA is not addressing in a divisive commercial about a topic that shouldn't be divisive at all: the value of eating real food. I'm a pediatrician specializing in eating disorder prevention and helping parents create lifelong relationships with food, body, and family. Psst - it's…

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Feb. 11, 2026

You’re Not Failing: Start With What’s Going Well

You’re Not Failing: Start With What’s Going Well

If you are trying to help your child make changes and it feels like nothing is working, this episode is for you. I hear it every day from parents. Food feels like a battle. Screens feel impossible to limit. Movement feels forced. And no matter how hard you try, it…

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Feb. 11, 2026

Change Without Shame: A New Season Begins

Change Without Shame: A New Season Begins

Some days, parenting does not just feel hard. It feels confusing. You are trying to do the right thing for your child, especially around food and health, but the messages are overwhelming. Eat this. Do not eat that. Worry about weight. Do not talk about weight. Move more. Stress less.…

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Feb. 11, 2026

You’re Not Failing: Start With What’s Going Well

You’re Not Failing: Start With What’s Going Well

Struggling with picky eating, screen limits, or trying to help your child build healthier habits without constant battles? In this episode of Family in Focus, I explain why common parenting advice often fails and how starting with what is already going well creates real, sustainable change. If you are trying…

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Feb. 11, 2026

Change Without Shame: A New Season Begins

Change Without Shame: A New Season Begins

Struggling with picky eating, mealtime battles, or feeling pressure about your child’s weight or eating habits? In this episode of Family in Focus, I help parents rethink children’s health and begin creating change without shame or harm. Some days, parenting does not just feel hard. It feels confusing. You are…

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Feb. 10, 2026

Tired of your child's health being defined by their weight? Learn what else is possible.

Tired of your child's health being defined by their weight? Learn what else is possible.

New Season Alert! Season 2 of the Family in Focus podcast drops tomorrow. This season is about helping parents lead change without harm, especially around food, emotional health, and the pressure so many families are carrying. I’m releasing the first two episodes together on purpose. Episode 1 offers support, validation,…

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Feb. 10, 2026

How to create change without harm for your family's eating habits

How to create change without harm for your family's eating habits

Family in Focus (Official Trailer) What would it mean if you didn’t feel so much pressure around your child’s eating, growth, or health? What would it be like to stop sorting through advice that feels stressful or even harmful? I’d like to invite you to Family in Focus, a space…

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Feb. 10, 2026

Family in Focus® | A New Season Begins | Official Trailer

Family in Focus® | A New Season Begins | Official Trailer

Hey. I see you. I know the struggle. Let me ask you something. What would it mean if you didn’t feel so much pressure around your child’s eating, growth, or health? What would it be like to stop sorting through advice that feels stressful or even harmful? I’d like to…

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Feb. 9, 2026

⚽ Moms play too! ⚽

⚽ Moms play too! ⚽

⚽ Moms play too! ⚽ My team is going to celebrate Women and Girls in Sports night with the Norfolk Admirals on Saturday night, Feb 14. Game starts at 7:05pm. I have special discount tickets (DM and I'll share the link) to share with you and your family. Let me…

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Feb. 9, 2026

What some think is promoting healthy eating, others see as weight stigma and shaming. How about you?

What some think is promoting healthy eating, others see as weight stigma and shaming. How about you?

Emotions are behind our eating habits. Trauma. Real emotions. They don't just change with a call to action to eat real food. Um, thanks. Yes and... Are you in? We all get to create the changes we want to see for ourselves and our families and our nation. It starts…

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