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Feb. 16, 2024

Shake It Off: How to shift when you're stressed

Shake It Off: How to shift when you're stressed

You're zapped, trying to focus on getting that report done. Or from the kids running on your nerves all day long. And the kids are having a meltdown and just arguing with each other, raiding the cabinets and doing anything but homework. What do you do? In today's episode of…

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Feb. 9, 2024

Are you playing ping pong or chess with your kids?

Are you playing ping pong or chess with your kids?

As a parent, are you playing ping pong or chess with your kids? It's not all about the games, it's about the approach to being with them. In this episode we talk about taking some lessons from Improv Comedy and apply them to working with our kids. No one approach…

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Feb. 1, 2024

“Snack Sneakers Snonymous”: 3 Steps for Parents to Understand

“Snack Sneakers Snonymous”: 3 Steps for Parents to Understand

Are you ready to be a member of the secret parent society, "Snack Sneakers... S-nonymous?" Parents are frustrated with snack sneaking and want to know how to fix it. Today we talk about 3 steps that you haven't heard before to get to the root of the question, "What do…

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Jan. 26, 2024

New Choice! A Playful Tool that Works to Create Change

New Choice!  A Playful Tool that Works to Create Change

Ever notice how you tend to have a soundtrack playing for your life? The same emotions, same story, same day to day.... and don't get me started on the "I'm bored!" soundtrack. Today we dive into an amazing tool - a game from the world of Improv Comedy - and…

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Jan. 26, 2024

Join Family in Focus

Join Family in Focus

Join the free community of parents creating lifelong health at home (without all the food & body drama): www.wendyschofermd.com Dive in to APPLYING the tools to your unique family in our signature coaching program for parents worried about their family's weight: www.wendyschofermd.com

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Dec. 22, 2023

Why we use shame tactics when it comes to health

Why we use shame tactics when it comes to health

We have to admit it: we all (yes, I) have used shame tactics when it comes to health. It's a part of our culture and once we admit it, we can start being on the look for where we are using the tool of shame against us. Because shame doesn't…

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Dec. 15, 2023

Finding Strength in the Coziness: Hygge

Finding Strength in the Coziness: Hygge

What does ending the year mean to you? I used to say that it meant getting ready for new beginnings.... but that was the part of me that was constantly on the move. Now I'm settling. I'm practicing hygge - and talking about what that looks like now with a…

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Nov. 21, 2023

De-Stressing for the Holidays: A Gift for Parents

De-Stressing for the Holidays: A Gift for Parents

"Holidays = Stress" has become a part of our language. But why are you stressed around the holidays? Today we unpack 6 very common stressors for parents during the holidays: 1) There's so much to do 2) It's so hard to stay healthy during the holidays 3) I have to…

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Nov. 10, 2023

Innovative Ways to Support Families Struggling with Weight, Dr Wendy Schofer, CHKD Grand Rounds

Innovative Ways to Support Families Struggling with Weight, Dr Wendy Schofer, CHKD Grand Rounds

Here's the full-length presentation from CHKD Pediatric Grand Rounds, Nov 9, 2023. It was a pleasure to be invited to speak to the medical staff and students, who were hungry for ways to support themselves, their families and their patients. Because after all, we are all struggling with weight. The…

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Nov. 10, 2023

Episode #102: How We All Struggle with Weight (& what to do)

Episode #102: How We All Struggle with Weight (& what to do)

We are all struggling with weight, each and every one of us. The focus of our struggle may be our own weight, our loved ones, and professionally the struggle may be for our patients, students and colleagues. Today's episode is an abbreviated version of a chat I did for the…

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Oct. 20, 2023

Episode #101: Navigating Big Emotions: Empathetic Parenting in a World of Conflicts

Episode #101: Navigating Big Emotions: Empathetic Parenting in a World of Conflicts

In a world filled with conflicts and crises, how can we navigate the unique challenges of parenting children with big emotions? Join us in this episode as we dive into the crucial topic of recognizing the importance of your child's feelings without comparing them to the chaos of the world.…

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Oct. 16, 2023

Power & Shame: The unhealthiest tools in medicine (& our homes)

Power & Shame: The unhealthiest tools in medicine (& our homes)

What's the last time you experienced shame about your weight, health or habits? How's that working out for you? We will talk about where the power and privilege come from, and how shame is being used to highlight a problem and it is making us more unhealthy. Check out the…

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Oct. 13, 2023

How to Beat Overwhelm: The Little Steps Approach

How to Beat Overwhelm: The Little Steps Approach

Today we are celebrating 100 episodes of the podcast and how we got here, amidst overwhelm, insanity and a crazy to-do list. Let's talk about the best way to address overwhelm: little steps. Recently we spoke about overwhelm (episode #98, Overstimulation & Overwhelm, https://www.wendyschofermd.com/blog/98) and I have to tell you…

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Oct. 7, 2023

An Experiment Gone Wrong: How I Failed a Family (Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer MD Episode #99)

An Experiment Gone Wrong: How I Failed a Family (Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer MD Episode #99)

I love experiments. Anyone who has worked with me in the office or the Family in Focus coaching community has heard me talk about little experiments. Well I want to share with you how I f'd it up. I f'd it up - and now I have learned so much…

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Sept. 29, 2023

A New View on Self Care, Part 2

A New View on Self Care, Part 2

Part 2 (hop on over and check out Part 1!: https://youtu.be/8qv2okoc_uc Let's talk about self-care through the lens of asking a very important question: "What do I need?" ****Not "What do I need to do?"**** Parents, this is EVERYTHING when we are looking at our family's health: not teaching our…

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Sept. 29, 2023

A New View on Self Care, Part 1

A New View on Self Care, Part 1

I take Fridays off (yes, ah-mazing), and yet.... here I am trying to stuff that day with all the things I didn't get done on the other days. That's not a day off! That's a day with my "other gigs" : the to-do list, meeting demands and expectations (my own…

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Sept. 22, 2023

How to Deal with Overstimulation & Overwhelm

How to Deal with Overstimulation & Overwhelm

Are you a parent feeling lost in the chaos of modern life, struggling to understand and manage overstimulation and overwhelm in your children? Are you feeling overwhelmed and overstimulated yourself? Let's dive into the world of parenting in the modern age, understanding more about stimulation and overstimulation and the resultant…

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Sept. 14, 2023

Unlocking Your Inner Rebel: How Parents Can Break Free and Rediscover Themselves

Unlocking Your Inner Rebel: How Parents Can Break Free and Rediscover Themselves

Hon, can we talk? I know... the word rebel doesn't feel like it fits. Yet, what is possible if it is the way to lead the life you actually want? Today we're gonna catch up, because I look a 2 month break from y'all, and I have gained so much…

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May 25, 2023

Your key role in the Family in Focus study group

Your key role in the Family in Focus study group

Parents, let's quick chat about the role that everyone plays when they participate in the Family in Focus research study. Can't wait to see you!

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May 17, 2023

Free session on building healthy relationships with food. Register today https://bit.ly/437Qq1Q

Free session on building healthy relationships with food. Register today https://bit.ly/437Qq1Q
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May 15, 2023

How do you help your child create a healthy relationship with food?

How do you help your child create a healthy relationship with food?

Let's Talk Relationships: They are the KEY to Health! Register for the upcoming FREE learning session and learn how to help the whole family transform their relationships (AND be healthy!): https://bit.ly/3W8DB5f

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April 11, 2023

What's your health expertise? ((Hint: You're the ONLY one who has it!))

What's your health expertise? ((Hint: You're the ONLY one who has it!))

Where do you go for your health expertise? Funny how it never seems to fit, or it seems like you're doing it all wrong (the way you eat, move, sleep).... Let's chat about how YOU are the expert and authority in you. And how we can start teaching our children…

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March 20, 2023

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD

It's really freaking hard to parent kids today with all this doom-and-gloom health messaging: risks to their health from food, weight, growth, physical and mental health stressors. What's a parent to do? First, learn that there is a different way to approach health. Learn about the Family in Focus difference…

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Aug. 26, 2022

Why "Weight Management" isn't what our kids need

Why "Weight Management" isn't what our kids need

Weight management is code for putting our kids on a diet! Learn the 4 reasons why diets are not for kids, and Learn what REALLY works instead. Parents are worried about weight for themselves and for their kids. It’s time to start creating the health you really want to see…

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