Episodes

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Dec. 9, 2021

Episode 27: Hunger & Kids

"My kids are always hungry!" Sound familiar to you? So many parents note it with concern, and question, "What does this mean?" This is the first episode in a series on hunger. We are starting with the why, the biology, and the NORMAL of hunger. Join me next week for the next steps... how to deal with hunger and the emotions of eating.
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Dec. 2, 2021

Episode 26: Three Things That We Were Never Taught

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD. As a physician and parent, I've learned a lot about kids, nutrition, and growth. But these are three things that I wasn't taught in school about weight - and are now oh so important to help now amidst concerns about weight and how to help our kids. 1) Our children's weight is not a fault/blame game, 2) Weight is NOT the problem, and 3) It's possible to be healthy at a wide range of weights. C'mon over to www.wendyschofermd.com to check out the u...
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Nov. 23, 2021

Episode 25: Teaching Gratitude for the Pain

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD, Episode #25! It's Thanksgiving week! It's that time of year where we renew our gratitude practices - and yet, how do we reconcile having gratitude amidst so much pain? Today's episode dives deeper into how do we embrace the pain, fear, uncertainty, grief - and open up the possibility for experiencing gratitude FOR the pain? So timely in 2020, 2021... and a good time to start modeling for our kids for 2022! This is getting personal - my examples ...
Nov. 23, 2021

4 Rules to Keep (Food) Peace on Thanksgiving

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD -- Thanksgiving special post. You know who wasn't invited to Thanksgiving - anywhere? The Food Police! In this super-quickie episode, I go over four things to consider before your Thanksgiving meal. They're so important that we can call them rules for the day. Actually for every day. Enjoy!
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Nov. 18, 2021

Three Tools to Help Us Help Our Kids

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD - Episode #24! You know what's different in helping parents who are worried about their kids' weight? Having conversations like these: not about cutting calories and increasing movement, but using the tools of connection, openness and learning. Join me - and let me know how you apply for yourself and your family and community: wendy@wendyschofermd.com.
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Nov. 11, 2021

Episode 23: The Many Faces of Responsibility

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD. Today we dive into Responsibility when it comes to helping kids navigate weight concerns. What are we controlling? Where is the finger-pointing? Where are the opportunities to take ownership? Dive in and let me know what you see as your responsibility in your home. And the downloadable Division of Responsibility sheet (all thanks to Ellyn Satter's work) is available here . Drop me a line wendy@wendyschofermd.com and let me know how you're applyi...
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Nov. 4, 2021

What Do You Choose to Focus Upon?

Welcome to Episode #22! My son's at it again: giving me material for the podcast! And that's not a bad thing. I appreciate the opportunity to choose to focus on our conversations. You see, the brain is hard-wired to find problems and to focus on them until fixed. So we are ALWAYS looking for danger, problems, and pain. It's about ensuring our survival. But we have the option - the choice - to focus upon what is going well. And yes, our relationship is going well. Take a listen, and the challenge...
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Oct. 7, 2021

Why Aren't Parents Playing?

Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD. Episode #18 A gymnastics-tricks session with my niece this weekend left her amazed: her mom and I jumped right in. She hadn't seen adults jump in to play like that at the gym and it begged the question: why? Why aren't parents playing? In today's episode, we dive into this further - and I ask of you: how can you let go and allow your brain and body to play? Please like, follow, and subscribe to Family in Focus on your favorite podcast service an...
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July 29, 2021

The Gifts of Imperfection

I'm practicing -- "I am not perfect, I do not need to be perfect, I am amazing BECAUSE of my mistakes and imperfections." Yeah, it's an ongoing practice. Like today, not editing. Just taking my unedited podcast and going real with you. It's a work in progress. As a physician, I thought that I needed to get it all right, not make mistakes - and I buried myself in shame when I did. I'm still learning about myself, about medicine, about my family - and that has made the difference. Because when I s...
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June 10, 2021

Family in Focus, with Dr Wendy Schofer - Episode 1

Welcome to Family in Focus, the podcast, with Dr Wendy Schofer. I empower parents of overweight children to build healthier families. www.wendyschofermd.com Check out the free Mini-Course at www.wendyschofermd.com/mini . And our free community for parents at www.facebook.com/groups/familyinfocus The information contained in Family in Focus, the podcast; as well as at www.wendyschofermd.com and the resources available for download through this website is not intended as, and shall not be understo...